The Happy List

Welcome back Dear Readers, For most of the past week, there was no running water in my house. It was astonishing how uncomfortable this was–both psychologically and physically. Even though I had access to fresh drinking water–which many people around the...

The Happy List

Hello Dear Readers! I hope you had a relaxing weekend. Since I started working for myself again, I notice weekends and stat holidays have lost a lot of their significance, which is both good and bad, but mostly good. I was never comfortable with “working for the...
Fear of Flailing

Fear of Flailing

There’s this theory in modern psychology that says that if you identify the reason a destructive behaviour exists, you can triumph over it.I’m not sure that’s true.A month ago I interviewed a business coach about success. During our conversation, I...

Happy (Impending) New Year!

We’re almost at 2014, Dear Readers! In the last few years, I’ve noticed this huge backlash against New Year’s resolutions. People say how stupid they are, how they’re made to be broken, and how they prefer to make their goals for a new year in...

A Writer’s Wish to Santa

Dear Santa, I’ve been a good writer all year. Well, except for that nasty little procrastination problem, but let’s not talk about that. Wait, where was I? All I want for Christmas is what every writer wants… A three-book deal; An offer from...

The Holiday Happy List

Hello Dear Readers, It’s almost Christmas! We’re supposed to be joyous at this time of year. Instead, we often find ourselves frazzled, overwhelmed, irritable, and exhausted. Here are my tips for how to stay happy and sane during the holidays. 1) Focus on...

Secrets to Success: Part Two

Welcome back, Dear Readers. Last Wednesday, I shared some advice from a business coach. Of his four steps to success, the most crucial one was belief. It’s not enough to know where you’re going–you have to believe with all your heart that you will...
Lessons Learned From Fight Camp

Lessons Learned From Fight Camp

One magical moment in time: the fall 2011 Kwest Kickboxing fight camp.Hello Dear Readers,I’m doing something a little different this Monday. My life coach has asked me to write about what I learned from training to fight in 2011.One of the most challenging...

Secrets to Success: Part One

Hello Dear Readers, I haven’t felt much like blogging lately. After writing The Silent Killer and Finding My Voice, any other subject seems trite or insignificant. I’ve never wanted a break from writing more than I do right now. But then I remembered that...