Suicide Isn’t a “Choice”

Once again, the world has lost one of its brightest lights. And once again, amid the reactions of shock and sadness, are the voices of idiots. Like many others, I was deeply saddened when I heard of Robin Williams’ untimely death. I was even sadder when I...
Trusting Your Voice

Trusting Your Voice

When I was a teenager, I knew everything about writing. Didn’t we all? Isn’t it amazing how brilliant everyone is at that age?I’d made it all the way to the last year of high school without anyone criticizing anything I wrote. Thrilled that I could...

The Difficulty of Letting Go

Once I care about someone, I tend to care about them forever. It doesn’t matter what changes in our lives–marriages, divorces, cross-country moves…how I feel stays the same. We may have met when I was a nineteen-year-old popcorn slinger at the local...

Fifteen Life Lessons From Beverly Hills 90210

1) There’s no need to worry. No matter what happens and how bad things get–cocaine and alcohol addiction, kleptomania, losing all your money to con artists, getting burned in a fire…it will be pleasantly resolved within a couple of weeks and never...

Confessions of an Uneasy Rider

I have a confession to make. I can’t ride a bike. I’ve never ridden a bike. And yet, my upcoming trip to China includes a full-day bike tour through the countryside. Why would I put myself in such a crazy situation? I was actually okay with being the...

Cats on a Plane

If the most frequent question I’m asked about moving is “Where?”, the second one is, “What are you going to do with your cats?” There is only one answer. Take them with us, of course! That said, moving with three cats is not going to be...

The Surprising Reason You May Be Depressed

As a journalist, I learn plenty of interesting things. Some stick with me, some don’t, and some have the potential to change my life. This year has been a strange one for me. Even though nothing bad has happened, save for a few unexpected problems with the...